Um, hello. Before I start my blog on the piece, I think it needs a little bit of an explanation for those who aren't to deep into the internet culture (or this part of it). This piece is a meta post. Meta, in this context, is basically a long essay/article about something, written by common people, some of whom are well educated, some of whom aren't. Usually researched, not always well. Sometimes edited but not always. Sometimes equally balanced but really not usually. This is a very awesome piece, on gender equality and male privilege in fandom and in life. Fandom is basically the batshit crazies of a fanbase, though not all of them are batshit. Just the more vocal ones, and the ones people who aren't in the fandom see.
Also, this is hosted on livejournal, which features nested comments. This means it's VERY easy to follow comment threads, instead of searching for replies (like you have to here). Similar to the differences between Polychronic and Monochronic time, like we discussed in class, one goes until it's finished, the other is very linear. I'd recommend taking the time to read some of the replies (you might have to skim for the ones that are either long or have tons of replies), because the essay doesn't end there. It's expanded and belabored and defended by the author and others all through out the comments.
More background info: in most places online, females must identify themselves as females to be known as such. It's how the world as we know it works. This isn't much of an arguable point - go into most major sites (that aren't exclusively for girls) with a uniform, genderless name and you'll be called a guy. Believe me, it happens to me most of the time I start somewhere new. Online fandom is different. There are certainly many many many guys out there in fandom, but for the most part they stick to visual fandom and women stick to written fandom. As women, we have carved out a niche for ourselves in the written world, and over the last 10 years, in this part of fandom it has slowly been the norm to assume that everyone is female first. And this, sadly, is where the problems arise.
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I've had this piece 'memoried' on livejournal for months now. Exactly 3 days after it was posted, since I placed it there directly after commenting. This piece is one of those pieces that makes you stop and go "Yeah, experienced that". It's not a huge statement, nor something that really surprised anyone (except the guys, sadly). And as fandom, or the part of fandom this was posted to, is nearly 100% girls, we all had this in mind, just not as articulate as the author, who told us that she was glad she could put that degree in rhetoric to good use for once.
Despite that this isn't a huge claim, it's a huge issue. As many of the members of this corner of fandom are, or were at some point and time, gamers, most of us had had very similar experiences. And most of us were more than willing to share. Sadly, because this is so highly populated with girls, we really do do the "holy shit, you're a guy!?!" bit when we find out there is indeed a male at the table with us. That's not to say we don't like them, and that we don't associate with them, or that we don't think they're smart enough to hold a conversation with us - it's simply that they aren't there, or they choose to stay firmly an "it".
This is very telling of the current generation's culture. The internet plays such a huge role in our lives, and yet for every contact we make with someone through it, we are trusting them to tell us who and what they are. Slowly we are beginning to form norms for each "type" of person online, though they are ever evolving. In some places on the internet it is assumed that you are male unless you specifically say so. In fandom, and especially on livejournal, it is assumed you're female.
The reaction that guys have to this "hfbded says: PLEASE, like I'm female! what do you take me for?!" illustrates the point of this essay perfectly. Males, when they come into our corner of fandom, which they have to know is predominately female or gay (because sometimes it feels like the number of posts exclaiming over a guys looks have to out number all others 10 to one), get MAD at us because we didn't just KNOW that they're male. They expect us to KNOW with out them TELLING US. But if we were to go to the board they frequent on sports, we HAVE to tell people we're female, because how the hell are they supposed to know?
Cerata says it all, through out the essay and the responses. Some other people bring up several good points. But I think the one thing that sticks out the most is that MOST PEOPLE DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF FEMINSIM.
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please ignore all people saying anything remotely sounding like the words "fandom" and "wank" in the same comment. Unless you're actually a part of it, it's going to sail right over your head.